jealousy, or separated interests. You know if your child does wrong and even greatly tries you, you feel it is your child and almost as if it were your own disgrace and failure, and instead of condemning mercilessly and throwing off the erring one, you take the fault to yourself and lovingly seek to help and to save. If another’s child did the same thing you would condemn and blame and feel no such responsibility. The whole question is whose child it is. Make it yours and love immediately comes into
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